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What I Learned After Talking To A Sex Doctor

Dr. Stephen de Wit is a Sex Doctor and Sexologist.He helps people discover and create the sex life they've always wanted. What exactly? Intimacy, pleasure, sexual expression and more. Most people are aiming for a Sexually empowered existence he says, "In whatever way that looks like ie: Abstaining, Orgies, etc. What matters is that you're empowered and free." He is a board certified practitioner of Sexology and has been in the "Sex Ed" space for 6 years. I had a chance to catch up with him, and I'm really glad that I did. Make sure you read to the bottom of the article for the best parts.Michael: Why did you choose this as your passion?Dr. de Wit: I've always been fascinated with SEX at a young age. I've been viewing, reading and researching since I was 11 years old. In school I was creating and alibi to learn more about sex. At the age of 19, I woke up one morning getting more passionate and fascinated about sex. I have a friend who was sexually abused at a young age and I couldn't comprehend it back th...

 


The Beginner's Guide to Cock Rings

In the increasingly complex and varied world of sex toys in general, few are as misunderstood as cock rings. To a certain extent, this is due to the strange phenomenon of male shyness when it comes to any sort of sexual subject. Men always try to present themselves as worldly and knowledgeable, it seems, and so are reluctant to ever admit any sort of ignorance of any sexually-related subject. At the same time, most men are incredibly paranoid about their delicate and fragile sexual equipment, to the point where the surest way to freak out any group of men is to suggest they might suffer some sort of penis- or scrotum-related accident.For men who are brave enough to admit a little curiosity about the most misunderstood sexual aid in history, cock rings, here is a quick and not-so dirty guide.Cock Rings 101The basic function of a cock ring is to restrict the flow of blood out of the penis. This can extend erections and make the penis more sensitive, resulting in a more intense sexual experience and, with some m...

 


Bondage Tape: One of the Most Useful Bondage Toys Out There

Most people who aren't into bondage of any sort have a tendency to discount any bondage gear as 'not for them,' but the fact is you can market just about anything as 'bondage toys' and anything marketed as bondage can be used in other ways. In other words, you don't have to enjoy BDSM to use some of the tools that the fetish has produced. Case in point: Bondage Tape, one of the most useful bondage toys to ever be invented. No matter what your fetish is (and come on now, we all have a fetish or two of some sort), Bondage Tape can be a fun addition.The Right Amount of StickyThe reason Bondage Tape is so amazing is that it's designed to only stick to itself - not to your skin, hair, or clothes. If you take a small piece of Bondage Tape and apply it to your arm, it will just fall off. Wrap it all the way around your arm so that it covers itself, however, and it adheres nicely and most likely has to be cut off.That makes Bondage Tape one of the most versatile bondage toys in the world - you can experiment with it ...

 


Jock Itch or Herpes? Here is How to Tell the Difference

A persistent groin itch is enough to make a sane man crazy, as part of the brain is always resisting the urge to scratch. Men with itchy, sore genitals might also be frightened of the cause of the itch, worried that the symptoms they're experiencing might be due to something chronic, like herpes. While herpes is common, some cases of crotch itching are caused by more benign conditions, including jock itch. This article will outline the difference between herpes and jock itch and provide some penis health care tips that could help keep both conditions from causing aggravation. Jock Itch: Causes and SymptomsA tiny fungal spore, tinea cruris, is responsible for jock itch. Most fungus cells thrive in moist, damp conditions where light is sparse. Men who work out or otherwise engage in hot, steamy sports while wearing tight pieces of clothing create the perfect environment for this fungal infection. Symptoms can vary a bit from man to man, but most people with the infection report intense itching and pain centerin...

 


Using Cute Lingerie to Strengthen Intimacy

When we think of cute lingerie we have a tendency to think of it as a costume that triggers and initiates sex - and a costume we don't plan to wear for very long, either. In fact, one reason some women reject cute lingerie has nothing to do with modern thinking or women's rights, and everything to do with spending forty minutes getting the outfit on, doing hair and makeup, and then having the whole kit torn off and possibly stained after just a few moments of excitement. Not that people are necessarily complaining about their lingerie being torn off in heated passion.But cute lingerie is meant to be more than just a momentary kink that acts as kindling - though it certainly does a good job at that. No, lingerie can also be a bridge between two partners, a way of building intimacy between them all day long that is less of an incendiary spark and more of a slow burn.Lingerie Intimacy for HerOne obvious way this can work is when a man buys lingerie for his partner, and she wears it all day long. This obviously r...

 


What Does Having Sex Mean to You?

I've been counseling individuals and couples for many years. More than half the time, when couples are having problems or the relationship is dissolving, sex is one of the major issues. There are a number of common scenarios: * After a long marriage with regular sex, he comes home to discover that his wife has left. He is devastated, and has no idea why. Upon exploration, it turns out that he has expected sex at least three times a week. While his wife complied, he knew that she felt emotionally disconnected from him and needed to grit her teeth to have sex with him. Looking back, he realizes that she tried to express this to him and he had refused to listen. Now she was gone. * The partners are still together, but the sex is essentially gone from the relationship. This frequently occurs in both heterosexual and homosexual relationships. One partner may be more upset about this than the other. * One partner has clearly stated that he or she is no longer available for sex. The partner states that he or she ...

 




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